When it comes to manifesting what we want in life, one of the biggest mistakes I see people make is that of being “desperate” to manifest.
Sure they say all the right things –
“everything I want comes to me effortlessly”,
“I easily attract my perfect for me soul mate clients”,
“money flows into my bank account easily”
and all of that…
Years ago, I made a Declaration to Spirit, that I wanted to live my life in Truth and that I wanted to see and learn to recognise everything that was Un-Truth.
This began the unexpected process of dismantling my life.
My marriage ended. Friendships ended.
And many of my spiritual beliefs fell apart too.
Do you love the idea of manifestation but get really TURNED OFF by all the ostentatious bullsh*t that you see all over social media from some of the manifestation gurus?
Are you telling me you don’t dream of owning a yacht or a beachfront mansion? !!!!
I have to tell you this… even though I don’t really want to go there…
Did you know that it’s possible to pick up (so-called) negative, or unwanted energy, from participating in a meditation circle, a drumming or chanting circle, cacao ceremony or actually… any spiritual gathering at all to be honest…
If I were to ask a room full of women: “Who wants to manifest their dream life?” I’m pretty sure nobody would put their hand up and say: “No thanks, that’s not for me”.
So we could say that all of them want their dream life but they are still at varying stages of actually manifesting it.
Would you say that’s true for you too?
I admit that for quite a long period of time I did.
Actually to be honest, I hated talking about or having to deal with money.
I had money, but I had a terrible fear that I would lose it all or that it would all be taken away from me and I’d end up homeless on the streets.
Many people have a love/hate relationship with money.
It’s one of the subjects that people get very uncomfortable with and statistically is the subject that causes more arguments between couples than any other.
You’d be surprised how many people do.
When everything’s going well in our lives, it’s easy to love ourselves. We feel good and everything feels possible for us.
But along comes a full moon, a retrograde planet, our monthly cycle, an unkind word and suddenly our whole world seems to go to hell in a handbasket and we start hating life and hating ourselves.
Maybe hate is too strong a word… but we all know what it’s like to feel like crap, and then those old sneaky destructive thoughts start to creep in.
So there you are, saying all the right affirmations and gazing at the images of piles of money on your vision board and yet nothing is happening to bring that money in.
You’re trying to have all the feels for money… trying to imagine yourself on a yacht somewhere lavish in the South of France maybe. But nope… nothings coming in and your bank account is looking bleak.
Are you one of these women who can’t bear to look at your credit card statement or has no idea how much money you really have (or don’t have)?
Rarely if ever, would you get into your car and start driving somewhere without knowing where you want to end up. Yet we do this with our lives.
Clients often tell me that they’re stuck and don’t know what they should be doing with their life. They know that they want to feel happy, fulfilled, abundant and rich, but they don’t know how to make that happen.
Everybody’s happy, fulfilled, abundant and rich (life) looks slightly different, and we will all achieve it in different ways. But in order to get there, it’s necessary to work out where “there” is so that you can actually head in the right direction.
