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#20 When You Realise You Need a Different Kind of Space

Woman reflecting on finding a different kind of space for personal growth

There comes a point where you realise that it’s not more information you need.

It’s not another book, or another course or certificate or even another perspective, because deep inside, you already know what you need.

You’ve seen your patterns and you understand what you need to break and what you need to put in place.  And yet… there are still moments where you find yourself slipping.

And what’s often happening is that you’re trying to hold a new way of being…with no support, inside an environment that hasn’t changed to meet you at your new level.

And that’s not an easy thing to do.

I’ve seen this many times.  And I have the lived experience of this myself too.

The truth is, that there is only so far you can go on your own.

Not because you’re not capable.  But actually, we are not necessarily designed to stabilise something new in a space of complete isolation.

At some point, what surrounds us starts to matter.

It’s the every day conversations that we’re a part of.  The energy of the places we’re in and most importantly, the level of truth that is normalised around us.  Because when we’re constantly surrounded by what we’ve already outgrown, or by people who don’t support our vision or see our potential…it takes a lot of energy to keep holding ourself in a different energetic space.

And eventually… something has to shift, and it has to shift in a way that supports who we are becoming.

This is something I’ve come to understand deeply, and it’s why I created a different kind of space for women to come in to.

Not one where you come to be fixed, or where you’re told what to do.

And it’s not one where you have to censor what you say or change who you are in order to belong.

But it’s a space where:

  • awareness is normal
  • truth is spoken
  • and you’re supported in actually living what you already know to be true for you.

It’s a space where you don’t have to explain yourself, where you don’t have to feel like the “different one”…

It’s a space where the way you see things is simply understood and accepted.

And it works, because you’re not the only one there who is working through the emotions, challenges and successes that life brings.

And when you’re in that kind of environment, something begins to settle in, not because you’re trying harder to “get it right”… But because you no longer have to be somebody else… or hold it all on your own.  You just have to be you.  And that’s the difference.

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