All posts tagged: uncomfortable questions

"Asking questions has often got me 'in trouble.' People didn't like my questions, and I didn't understand why until I realized something important: if someone is trying to hide something from themselves or others, my questions make them squirm. After years of experiencing their negative projections, I finally understood that my questions create the tension that leads to transformation. Sometimes we lie to ourselves because we're not ready to face the truth yet, but there comes a point when staying where you are becomes more painful than making the change..."